Debriefing, De-Escalation & Training

Debriefing

Debriefing after a difficult or traumatic event allows individuals and teams to process what happened, reduce stress, and strengthen coping skills. It also helps maintain group cohesion and trust.

Steps in a debriefing process:

  1. Assess the incident – Understand what happened and who was involved.

  2. Ensure safety – Make sure everyone is physically and emotionally safe before starting.

  3. Provide space for feelings – Let participants share their emotional responses without judgment.

  4. Review symptoms – Discuss any physical, emotional, or behavioural reactions they may notice.

  5. Offer education – Explain common trauma responses and normalize reactions.

  6. Support return to routine – Create a plan for moving forward, including self-care strategies and follow-up.

Art by: Pam Cailloux

De-Escalation

De-escalation is the use of calm communication, empathy, and non-threatening body language to defuse tension and prevent conflict from escalating.

Key tips for de-escalating tense situations:

  • Stay calm and maintain a steady, respectful tone.

  • Listen actively and validate the person’s feelings.

  • Keep a safe distance and avoid sudden movements.

  • Use open body language and avoid crossing arms or pointing.

  • Avoid sarcasm, judgment, or dismissive language.

  • Offer options or solutions to help restore a sense of control.

Art by: Betty Albert

Managing Abusive or Aggressive Callers

  • Listen without taking the behaviour personally.

  • Acknowledge their frustration and apologize for the difficulty.

  • Clearly explain what steps you can take to help.

  • Set limits by warning that abusive language will result in ending the call.

  • Follow through calmly if boundaries are crossed.

Training Recommendations

Ongoing training strengthens an organization’s ability to respond to trauma with skill and compassion. Suggested training includes:

  • Mental Health First Aid – Recognize and respond to mental health crises.

  • Trauma-Informed Responses to Disclosures of Sexual Violence – Support survivors with safety and sensitivity.

  • Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) – Recognize and assist individuals at risk of suicide.

  • Trades NL Program Development Training – Incorporate trauma-informed approaches into training programs.

  • Indigenous Cultural Competency Training – Deepen understanding of Indigenous history, culture, and community needs.